Each year there is a world wide candle lighting service held to honor all children who left this world too soon. I was invited to attend the local service held in our town and was honored to give a speech to our community of grieving families. While it is difficult to take my own advice and inspiration at times, I find it incredibly healing to offer support and encouragement to others. This holiday season has been hard. I’m grieving the memories I should be making with my sons. I am envious of the pregnancy announcements and other women’s  ability to carry to a child. I am grateful for the life I have…